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…just pull the string…

Posted by Týr on September 30, 2008

Among the many blogs I follow is ModFetish, which for the most part has artsy shots of naked women that don’t do anything for me (don’t even ask me about the pics with octopodes – Chthulhu does nothing for me). But occasionally they will show something that is just fantastic, like the most hardcore harp I’ve ever seen. 

Way more hardcore than Harptallica.

The backdrop is perhaps a bit dull, but it’s still so beautiful I had to share it with you.

Those of you easily squicked by many temporary piercings shouldn’t click on the link. Many of you are also now wishing I had put this disclaimer before the link.

The best part of the picture is that if you look closely, you see that she is looking into his eyes, and you can tell by that soft, gentle features around her eyes that she is smiling at him. While tied to the harp frame, and being plucked, she still smiles at him. Beautiful.


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A sadist like me can pursue his vocation

Posted by Týr on June 11, 2008

So at Topdrop’s play party on Friday, Adam and I double-topped Maja with wonderful effects. We placed her in between us and began flogging her from both sides. It was one of those situations that she very clearly loved/hated/loved/hated/loved, which is what many of us, indeed Adam and I, aim for when we play. All that Maja knew before the scene was that both of us were going to top her, so when we decided to start our scene, I just placed her in between us, facing me, and the two of us just started draping our floggers over her, just letting the soft leather caress her shoulders, breasts and back. Once we actually got to flogging her, I saw that fantastic mix of delight and fear. I think this was the first time that Maja had any sort of non-hand impact where she could actually see the blows coming. Hits kept raining down, some just grazing the nipple, some having all the falls across her chest. After some time, Adam pulled out his Dragon’s Tongue and started hitting Maja’s back while I embraced her, slightly more as a means to keep her from squirming away then from pure affection. I turned her around and held her arms in a full Nelson so that Adam could use the Dragon’s Tongue on Maja’s breasts, leaving some really beautiful marks. I must say that Adam’s aim really is impeccable. I also think that I want a Dragon’s Tongue for myself. 

You should have seen Maja’s face. She. Was. Beaming. It’s been a while since a scene had made her that happy, so we owe a small debt to Adam. Thank you, Adam. That scene really was the highlight for both of us that night. We each went off to hang out with friends, our paths crossing every so often, usually with hugs. All in all a good night was had before we managed our way home and crashed in bed.

The next morning I was pleasantly surprised when Maja asked me to hurt her breasts. Usually she needs a couple days for the tenderness of post-play to subside, but she seemed to be so keyed up from the previous night that she wanted more. So I was only too happy to oblige. There are worse ways to spend a morning…

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I’ve been linked!

Posted by Týr on August 30, 2007

So on Thursday, before leaving for Floating World, my blog had a lowly 92 hits on it’s hit counter. When I looked again on Monday, there were 893. Where did all these come from? I was thinking that perhaps I left some incredibly wise comment on one of the many blogs that I read. But since I would hardly describe my writing as fantastic, I ruled that out fairly quickly. Then, after going through my blogroll, I saw that Kaya linked to my rambling post on objectification.

I think Kaya might be the first sex blog that I started reading. THANK YOU KAYA!

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I’ve heard of objectification…

Posted by Týr on August 20, 2007


..but this is ridiculous. This catsuit might just be the weirdest erotic attire I have ever seen. I mean, isn’t the point of having sex with an actual person to actually have sex with an real live warm-blooded person? If you want to have sex with a doll, buy a doll. It’ll probably be cheaper than this catsuit (except that last one).

Yes, I understand the whole objectification thing. Sometimes you simply want to just use someone as an object for sex. The thing is that I want to use a person as an object without turning them into one. I still want my partner to respond normally. To moan, to gasp and grimace as I slap/squeeze/squish (really just wanted to alliterate), to clutch at my back, to look me in the eyes and tell me more in those gazes than she could with words. I quite enjoy have sex with real people. I think I should continue that.

Actually, the more I think about this, the more this thought turns me on, and that’s just weird. Because I’ve always thought that love dolls are just weird. Very weird. (Especially when you have people who buy a RealDoll and then treat those as their girlfriends – In fact Maja and I saw a preview for a movie that deals with this stuff). Come to think of it, only one aspect turns me on about having sex with a person wearing this ridiculous latex suit: she would moan. That is the one aspect of such an encounter I would look forward too.

I bet in real life any similar situation would turn out totally different, but that’s not important right now. (For one thing, if I had $700 lying around, I sure as hell wouldn’t use it on this.) I bet that if the situation should miraculously present itself, I’d bemoan the fact that I don’t have actual nipples to torment but instead have to make do with two weird unhealthily-pink circles on the doll’s chest.

The worst part about having sex with someone wearing this: you’d think that after some time having sex the look of surprise would leave her face.

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