Comments for Everyone needs a love tap now and then http://justalovetap.wordpress.com ...and it may just be good for what ails you. Thu, 15 Oct 2009 16:20:47 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on This bicycle is also a detour… by professornyc http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/2009/05/21/this-bicycle-is-also-a-detour/#comment-258 professornyc Thu, 15 Oct 2009 16:20:47 +0000 http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/?p=115#comment-258 That pumped up feeling of conquering a hill or a challenging ride is very powerful and rewarding. You are the dominant one in that scene. But you have a very good question about how and what you do with the feeling. The feeling you ave after the ride comes from successful endurance. Cycling is almost like being the best switch. On any ride you are the top/dominant who conquers a hill while all along being the bottom/sub who can endure severe pain and torture but you never give up. That switch is what you may want to tap into. How does the feeling you are speaking of become the thing that allows you to be the best bottom/sub after the ride when you normally associate the feeling with the top/dominant role? How do you flip the 'switch'? Think of it as a multi-use tool. That pumped up feeling of conquering a hill or a challenging ride is very powerful and rewarding. You are the dominant one in that scene. But you have a very good question about how and what you do with the feeling. The feeling you ave after the ride comes from successful endurance. Cycling is almost like being the best switch. On any ride you are the top/dominant who conquers a hill while all along being the bottom/sub who can endure severe pain and torture but you never give up. That switch is what you may want to tap into. How does the feeling you are speaking of become the thing that allows you to be the best bottom/sub after the ride when you normally associate the feeling with the top/dominant role? How do you flip the ’switch’? Think of it as a multi-use tool.

]]> Comment on Loving Violence – The Power of Punching by maymay http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/2009/08/09/loving-violence-the-power-of-punching/#comment-245 maymay Fri, 28 Aug 2009 11:11:10 +0000 http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/?p=126#comment-245 If you haven't seen it yet, you should read <a href="http://www.ivyleaguepornographer.com/archives/715" rel="nofollow">this feedback on your Power of Punching presentation</a>. If you haven’t seen it yet, you should read this feedback on your Power of Punching presentation.

]]> Comment on Loving Violence – The Power of Punching by Kai http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/2009/08/09/loving-violence-the-power-of-punching/#comment-244 Kai Fri, 21 Aug 2009 07:21:31 +0000 http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/?p=126#comment-244 Interesting it definatly gave me some things to think about and i wrote those thoughts on my blog. Interesting it definatly gave me some things to think about and i wrote those thoughts on my blog.

]]> Comment on Loving Violence – The Power of Punching by maymay http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/2009/08/09/loving-violence-the-power-of-punching/#comment-243 maymay Thu, 13 Aug 2009 20:02:13 +0000 http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/?p=126#comment-243 Seconding Maja's comment, in addition to adding the appropriate tags to this post (i.e., both 'kinkforall' and 'kfanyc2'), you could also add a link to the Schedule Grid at <a href="http://wiki.KinkForAll.org/KinkForAllNewYorkCity2Schedule" rel="nofollow">http://wiki.KinkForAll.org/KinkForAllNewYorkCity2Schedule</a> to this post so people who weren't at the event or who missed your talk (like me!) can more easily find this. :) Seconding Maja’s comment, in addition to adding the appropriate tags to this post (i.e., both ‘kinkforall’ and ‘kfanyc2′), you could also add a link to the Schedule Grid at http://wiki.KinkForAll.org/KinkForAllNewYorkCity2Schedule to this post so people who weren’t at the event or who missed your talk (like me!) can more easily find this. :)

]]> Comment on Loving Violence – The Power of Punching by Maja http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/2009/08/09/loving-violence-the-power-of-punching/#comment-242 Maja Mon, 10 Aug 2009 20:43:19 +0000 http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/?p=126#comment-242 So happy that you got all verbose on us at #KFANYC2. You might want to look into tagging this post a little more thoroughly so that it'll come up on searches of the hashtag. (I'll need to do this too, for my own notes.) Things to add (that were covered during the question and answer portion): - Varying the surface-area of your fist greatly affects the sensation the bottom gets. For added fun, tenderize an area of flesh, then attack a smaller part of it. Use your knuckles if you want to be really mean. - Use your whole body to punch, not just your arm. You won't tire as quickly, and your punches will be more... authoritative, if not more forceful. Find your center of gravity, keep your knees soft, and be aware of your body when you punch, from hip to shoulder to fist. So happy that you got all verbose on us at #KFANYC2. You might want to look into tagging this post a little more thoroughly so that it’ll come up on searches of the hashtag. (I’ll need to do this too, for my own notes.)

Things to add (that were covered during the question and answer portion):

- Varying the surface-area of your fist greatly affects the sensation the bottom gets. For added fun, tenderize an area of flesh, then attack a smaller part of it. Use your knuckles if you want to be really mean.

- Use your whole body to punch, not just your arm. You won’t tire as quickly, and your punches will be more… authoritative, if not more forceful. Find your center of gravity, keep your knees soft, and be aware of your body when you punch, from hip to shoulder to fist.

]]> Comment on Loving Violence – The Power of Punching by SJ http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/2009/08/09/loving-violence-the-power-of-punching/#comment-241 SJ Mon, 10 Aug 2009 03:21:04 +0000 http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/?p=126#comment-241 I like it! Well done! I like it! Well done!

]]> Comment on This bicycle is also a detour… by Maja http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/2009/05/21/this-bicycle-is-also-a-detour/#comment-228 Maja Fri, 22 May 2009 03:24:08 +0000 http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/?p=115#comment-228 And, to offset the Ornery McGrumpinstein tone of that comment, can I say how monumentally sweet it is that you tried to switch modes kinda artificially for me? Usually you're a fierce advocate of playing it by ear. It's very sweet of you! And, to offset the Ornery McGrumpinstein tone of that comment, can I say how monumentally sweet it is that you tried to switch modes kinda artificially for me? Usually you’re a fierce advocate of playing it by ear. It’s very sweet of you!

]]> Comment on This bicycle is also a detour… by Maja http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/2009/05/21/this-bicycle-is-also-a-detour/#comment-227 Maja Fri, 22 May 2009 03:21:47 +0000 http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/?p=115#comment-227 Other mitigating factors: I caught your cold. <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=84Ud3V9NPw8" rel="nofollow">Mars is laughing at us</a> and nobody is getting any. My head and heart know it's spring, but the rest of me thinks it's that gross part of November when the snow is gray and we dream of this time of year dammit. Digression! I honestly thought you had an intense fit of giggles that day and that's it. Do you always laugh like that when you're trying to convert dominance into submission? Because that would explain a host of other moments of inexplicable hilarity. You nutbar. We should talk more. You mentioned that hill thing a couple of times, but I had no idea the feeling was so intense as to be postworthy. I could totally have gone for some getting-shoved-down-and-effed-up this week, were it not for the aforementioned cold. Stupid, stupid aforefuckingmentioned cold. Other mitigating factors: I caught your cold. Mars is laughing at us and nobody is getting any. My head and heart know it’s spring, but the rest of me thinks it’s that gross part of November when the snow is gray and we dream of this time of year dammit.

Digression!

I honestly thought you had an intense fit of giggles that day and that’s it. Do you always laugh like that when you’re trying to convert dominance into submission? Because that would explain a host of other moments of inexplicable hilarity. You nutbar. We should talk more.

You mentioned that hill thing a couple of times, but I had no idea the feeling was so intense as to be postworthy. I could totally have gone for some getting-shoved-down-and-effed-up this week, were it not for the aforementioned cold.

Stupid, stupid aforefuckingmentioned cold.

]]> Comment on A glimpse into the future, hopefully by SJ http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/2009/04/28/a-glimpse-into-the-future-hopefully/#comment-226 SJ Sun, 17 May 2009 16:27:42 +0000 http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/?p=107#comment-226 That's wonderful! I think I know the feeling. :-) It's great to know what you want, isn't it? That’s wonderful! I think I know the feeling. :-) It’s great to know what you want, isn’t it?

]]> Comment on A glimpse into the future, hopefully by Týr http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/2009/04/28/a-glimpse-into-the-future-hopefully/#comment-225 Týr Sun, 03 May 2009 20:08:51 +0000 http://justalovetap.wordpress.com/?p=107#comment-225 The point is that I still want my relationship to be as physically affectionate then as it is now. I can do that now, and I do. But I still want that playfulness then. The point is that I still want my relationship to be as physically affectionate then as it is now. I can do that now, and I do. But I still want that playfulness then.

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